Consent is a topic that has popped up everywhere in the last year and blues dance communities all over the country are no exception. Consent is often brought up as a piece of the larger debate centered around how to make our dances safer and more welcoming places, for both new and existing members.
consent - to agree to do or allow something : to give permission for something to happen or be done
When we’re talking about consent in the dance community, there are two categories of things that ‘can be done’ that we talk about. Dance things and non dance things. This article will focus on the dance related consent issues.
1. Dance blues.
Okay, sure, there are some well-known blues DJs who don’t actually dance. And they are successful, right? Well, sometimes. However, it makes DJing blues MUCH easier if you actually do the dance yourself. You get a feel for what makes a song “danceable,” and what rhythms are interesting to dance to and which are not. You learn which songs are your favorites to dance to, and which songs make you and your friends want to leave the dance floor. It’s also good if you can try dancing to your own music that you are going to DJ – you can test it out and see if it is fun to dance to, and then if it is,...
Connection and self-improvement. That’s it. These two things are the driving forces behind a person’s transformation from casual dancer into lifer. When blues, or any activity, continually provides people with opportunities to feel connected and feel that they are improving themselves, those people (provided they are not getting more of these things from other sources) will be hooked. Great, but what actual actions do we take, what areas do we build up, to continually reinforce these feelings for ourselves and for others?
Social dance venues are places where people gather together at least once a week. (Think: church or writing group or community center.) Everyone has people they hope to see whenever they go out dancing, people they have wonderful,...